The Most Important Manifestation Question.
The Bridge Between Vision and Reality...
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If I asked what you most want to manifest in 2025, what would it be? And more importantly - do you believe you can actualize it?
I believe you can. But there's a vital question you must ask and answer with ruthless honesty.
Before I share that vital question, I want to express my intention behind writing this 4-part series on manifestation:
I want your 2025 to be the most magical fucking year of your life.
In my first two Manifesting essays, I shared how authentic Self-expression is the foundation of manifestation and how your relationship with yourself determines what you can create.
Continuing from there, it's time to ask the most important question in conscious manifestation: Who do you need to become to actualize what you desire?
That question is foundational to intentional creation.
“We are the life we are living.”— xRx
That quote of mine is so simple, so deep, and so so true. Not always an easy one to swallow because Self-accountability plays a massive role in it, but it is still a truth.
Every significant manifestation comes from a significant shift in your Self-Identity. This isn't a personality shift— that’s like changing an outfit.
This is a much deeper shift. It’s shifting your beliefs, narratives, and relationship with yourself. This is when you prioritize your intuition, values, intentions, focus, habits, and energy expenditure at elevated levels.
This is how you expand + evolve into the person who lives the life of your desired manifestations.
EVOLUTION'S EDGE
My evolution has taught me this truth over and over. Every new big city I moved to, changing careers mid-life, every inch of expansion in my business, the deepening of my relationships, every new level of my authentic Self-expression; all of it came from elevating who I AM. It’s the journey of my Self-Identity unfolding in alignment with my Soul.
I wasn't pushing harder or forcing. That only creates resistance. It's been my unwavering self-trust that's allowed my highest expression to emerge naturally.
I cannot drill this part enough:
A massive part of manifesting is trusting yourself.
You have to trust yourself to allow yourself to walk through uncertainty where your desires call you forward. You have to be brave and meet every challenge on the path with certainty in you.
That’s the part you will continue to build as you walk this path of Self-trust and intentional, heart-centric reality creation. It’s both a practice and a prophecy.
SACRED INVITATIONS
"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."— Anais Nin
There are moments when your desires aren't just wishes; they're invitations to evolve into more of who you're meant to be.
That money you're calling in invites you to enter a more powerful relationship with abundance. That career elevation calls you to embody higher levels of leadership + Self-expression. That Soul-aligned partnership asks you to open your heart in ways you never have before. That impact you want to create in the world calls you to express your truth more boldly than ever.
Even the challenges you're facing are sacred messengers. That difficult conversation you're avoiding? It's an invitation to speak your truth more boldly. That project that feels overwhelming? It's calling you to trust and strengthen your capabilities more deeply. Those moments of doubt? They're highlighting where you're ready to create more confidence.
The closer you get to your heart, the easier it is to recognize these invitations and take decisive action. You don’t hesitate. You trust, and you move accordingly.
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SIGNALS FROM YOUR SOUL
"You can't become what you want to be by remaining what you are."—Maya Angelou
Like a caterpillar that knows when to emerge from its cocoon and expand as a butterfly, your Soul shows you when it's time for you to rise.
It's important to realize your core desires aren't random - they align with your Soul and higher evolution. I'm not talking about hedonistic pleasures either— trust me, I love some moments of hedonistic fun, but the desires I'm referring to are deeply felt and don't leave you alone. You can’t hit snooze on them— they will keep sounding the alarm inside until you awaken and pursue them.
When your environment drains you instead of energizes you, when your current reality feels too small, when relationships deplete rather than expand you, and when your creativity begs for bolder expression, these aren't problems. They're sacred signals that you're ready to expand into the next level of your evolution.
Start noticing what you're craving with curiosity… trust these signs from within.
They’re not inconveniences - they are how your heart + intuition communicate you are ready to expand and become more of who you truly are. They aren't just wishes or emotional itches. It’s your intuition asking you to keep paying attention to what you’re feeling, and when the time comes to act, you fucking go for it.
YOUR 2025 AWAKENING
“Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it!” — Goethe
To close this essay out, here are some ideas to reflect on…
Examine your current beliefs and thought patterns. Are there any limiting beliefs or negative self-talk holding you back? Even subtle shifts in your mindset, like replacing "I can't" with "How can I?" can make a huge difference in manifesting your desires.
Look at your daily habits and routines. Small changes, like carving out quiet time each morning to connect with yourself before diving into the day's demands, will have a big impact. Prioritize activities that ground and inspire you.
Get comfortable saying no to things that don't align with your vision, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. Make space for those fuck YES’s that scare you a little but deeply excite you. Your time and energy are precious - use them wisely.
Trust your heart’s voice, even if your path doesn’t make sense to anyone else. No one knows what you need better than your heart + Soul. Give yourself permission to honor your intuition.
Consider starting a Self-directed writing practice to strengthen your connection with your authentic Self. Writing is a powerful way to reinforce yourself where needed + expand Self-trust.
Embrace your evolution as an epic story unfolding. Savor the turning of pages. You don't need to change everything all at once. I often say, “Inches make the mile.” Don’t underestimate those inches made with intention and focus.
Keep leaning into invitations from your Soul. Connect with your Future Self. When you trust your heart to lead you, your path will light itself along the way.
Only you know what's needed for your authentic evolution.
The magic happens in these moments when you choose your expansion over comfort. It’s when you DECIDE that trusting yourself is more important than anything else in life— because it is.
In the final essay of this series, I'm sharing powerful Self-directed writing practices that will help you integrate the main ideas and practices I’ve shared on manifestation. Plus, paid subscribers will receive access to my exclusive manifesting activation recording to support your 2025 evolution.
I’m so inspired to bring this all together for you next week and support your next chapter to be one of the manifestations that expand + elevate you.
🖤 Because WHY NOT YOU? Your evolution is already in motion🖤
I love the frequency of that question…
xRx
🖤 ICYMI: The past two essays in this four-part series:
Essay One: Why Most Manifesting Advise Fails.
Essay Two: The Most Overlooked Piece To Manifesting.
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An absolute yes to all of this! I am living all of this and it is such a great space to just be in the ease of loving myself. Thank you for such a great share.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful piece of work 💗 it’s really inspired me during a time in my life where I feel called to a new season. The in-between moments are hard and uncomfortable. But this helped to remind me that I can lean into myself during these moments and trust my intuition to guide me in the right direction. Love you girl.